NYGal I didn't file, she did. Very quickly. We had an argument in which I confronted her about OW and that day she moved out and met with a L to file for divorce.
She texted me that and then immediately after replied to the email I set. She basically said something like "I agree a mediator could be good if we both agree to work really hard to not hurt each other." Which I don't even know how to read that because I've apologized for the mistakes I know I've made in this M and since everything started she's been nothing but a monster to me. But okay.
I just responded with "like I said I want this to be painless. I want to be able to move forward with my life and go our separate ways"
Which she got really snippy with me after that so I shifted even further into indifference. Then she told me she wants to come get the dog crate since she will be staying overnight in town because she has a sleep study.
I know her and I know she wanted me to comment on the sleep study thing and I didn't. I just said I moved the crate to the basement and I won't be home later.
W:32 M:26 T:5 yrs M: 3 yr BD: JUN 2016 W Moved out: early JUL 2016 W Filed for D: mid JUL 2016 EA: 06/16? PA: 07/16 Moved in w/ ow: 07/16 D final: 10/16