My wife walked out 4

[RSG]

Not much to report. She fwd me the little email the school sends out on S day. I read it, and a couple hours later replied "thank you." I signed up for it myself at school this AM. Incidentally, the email included the picture of her I saw on FB reading to the kids...


Yeah, she does have her work cut out. I'm glad I didn't send the "minimal contact" email, because it seems to be happening naturally. While CBT and others have been right, that I DO like seeing her name pop up on my phone, it hasn't been because of excitement, it's been more like relief that she needs me. Much like CT, I'm feeling so much more apathetic about the whole thing but at the same time with minimal contact coming more naturally it feels scary. Is this supposed to be where you just say hi/bye at dropoff, text every now and then re scheduling and otherwise drop off the map? Her pursuit, control or whatever has been annoying but it also felt like an indication that I was something she needed.

I know we're on 2 journeys. Mine has led me to some pretty big changes in less than 3mos, hopefully with more to come. I have no idea where she is. Yesterday AM she had a snotty attitude, but at dropoff was friendly. She seems to respect me more, as every time I call her out she eventually backs down. But beyond that, I don't know.

Would like to hear thoughts from my followers.