Man, it sounds like a tough time. My heart goes out to you not being able to see your babies every day. And the fact that your ww is out sunning herself in a lifestyle funded by you must really make you angry.
I do believe detaching and GAL works, the best part is it truly saves your sanity and protects you from the waywards crazy train. Though I know exactly how you feel because the way my situation is at the moment, I feel like there's no coming back from this. Still we must stick with the process and have faith, as like I say, if nothing else- it will protect and save ourselves so their venom can no longer hurt us
Me 26 H 25 M 4 T 5 Baby born 4/14 BD: 1/15 EA: 2/15 PA: 4/15 reconciling: 4/15 ILYBINILWY- 11/15 ILY-1/16 ILYBNILWY 4/16 ILY 6/16 ILYBINILWY 6/16 Baby due 3/17 BD 8/16