SmithyC,
Great job on handling this mornings events. Great start to going dim while you are on your trip. Like we've discussed there are a lot of similarities in our sitches
I think you being there for her and communicating is a very good thing, at the same time not smothering her or coming across as trying to control is huge.
I think you have peaked her interest. To me this is what happened in my first sitch.
She started noticing changes so she started to second guess the whole thing.
Remember you have no control over what she does or what she decides in the end
That's why it so important to detach and become the best SmithyC you can be for you
I think your 180's are very important right now
Keep it up


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it