I also told my therapist yesterday about the to-be coffee date and had her full support.
My therapist was also supportive of me doing something like that. She thought it'd be a good wake-up-call for my WW/MLC. But I think you have to be sure that this is what you want, and that it's not somehow going to mess you up in the way your sort out your feelings about your H.
I don't have answers on this. Wrestling with it myself. I don't want seeing others to be a crutch. But then I think... maybe there's nothing wrong with a crutch (as long as all parties are aware?)
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final
