Maybs - Pt2

[maybs]

The weirdness keeps coming today. I haven been interested in hiring a mediator for our D pretty much since this started. I would much rather try to work it out with her as opposed to ending up fighting in court. Which is how it would go because her L is a B. Lol.

So I've been doing my research about mediation and found a few in the area that look like good options for us. I constructed a well thought out email that basically says "I would like for us to consider mediation as an option for our divorce. I would like to come out of this as financially stable as possible and lawyers get expensive. Here are some links with information about a couple of places in the area that offer mediation services. I would like this to be as painless for me as possible so I can move forward with my life. Let me know what you think"

I purposely sent it as an email because I wanted her to have time to look it over and I purposely sent it in the middle of the work day so if she tried to contact me about it I would be busy.

W texts me to say "I got your email but I haven't had time to look at it and I didn't want you to think I was ignoring you." Okay what? Because you actually have been ignoring me for 3 weeks up until last night and now all the sudden you're worried about my feelings?????

I'm just not responding. But I don't understand what is going on.... Why did she not want to talk for weeks and now all the sudden she's concerned I'll think she's ignoring me? And making up reasons to talk? Is this how this is supposed to work? Because I was finally getting comfortable not speaking to her for long periods of time.