"I'd be pretty happy if she were truly conflicted; that would be real progress, especially given that she was looking for her own place at the end of June. My gut tells me it's all just part of the Long Con she's running, though"

Jruss, I share your guardedness since you have been hurt and rollercoastering with her to exhaustion. Try not to think defensively as it can show in your attitude or behaviours. She will feel it, not understand it and pull away cos it doesn't feel safe. I'm still learning all this too. Regards, Colleen

Me54 WH48
S18 D16
M 22 T 24
EA-PA-EA 2011-2015
Separated 10/14 - 06/15
BD1 02/14
BD2 05/16
BD3 08/21/16 and began drinking again
Working on me and liking me again