Cheesy, they are absolutely temp checks. It's time for you to step up and take control. Don't let her tell you what or when or why. You make the decisions and tell her. She's the one that wants out, so let her see what she's missing -- someone who is strong and competent and perfectly capable of moving on and having a great life without her.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat