rich - the similarities of your sitch and others to mine are unreal. That is what makes this community so great is the bond of parallel. it is true to try and live in the present moment and not get tangled up in the past or the future (it just leads to disheartenment). as I read your sitch and others its like we are living the same experience only mutated by small factors. you deserve better - we all deserve better- to be loved and treated with kindness and respect. remember that they are the ones who walked away and lacked the commitment to the R/M. its easy to beat ourseleves up but better to try and focus on the positive and our new paths


Me: 48 WAW:40
T:14yr M:12 yr
d8
BD 2/2016
WAW moves out 6/05