Also to not be the only one pursuing......... and keep a check on those expectations.As cadet says they will get you every time.

Best wishes and thanks for update. I have my fingers crossed for ye.

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together