I had a feeling you would say that. I agree divorce is over. Is she coming back ... Nope . If she is she is far away from who she needs to become.
i won't waiste any energy on it.
All I see now is a woman who tried the feel sorry victim approached a few days ago to now referring us a friends and being all sweet in an email.
There was no appoligy, no how are the girls. It was her asking for the impossible at this moment.
I responded. To her request for the girls to call XMIL and her friend to me comment.
"The girls are old enough to answer your mother if she wants to ask them directly. I will not push or trick them into calling her.
As for me and you as friends. I don't see that to be a possibility at this moment. What you did to me and our girls will not just be erased from our minds. You hurt our girls in the worst possible way a mother can hurt their children.
Your choice to abandone them and you chose OM over them will stay in their broken hearts for a long long time. As long as you are with OM you know very well the girls will not ever go there or accept your choice.
I will also protect my girls. I am a father and I am doing my job as one.
I wish you peace and happiness.
Irish
M51 XW43 (38 at bd) BD1 MAY 30 2015 BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text moved out Aug 2 2015 left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20) Her divorce Final July 26 2016 Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015