I didn't respond to the bills part of her text, she wasn't really asking me for anything and she didn't say she wanted me to help so I'm not going to help.
I went with "Oh no! I hope she starts feeling better soon" about our dog.
And W never said anything else.
Asking me about money in our joint account was super weird because she knows I haven't been using that account for 6 weeks and she's been taking money out of it without asking me for weeks.... why all the sudden would she be asking my "permission"???
Doesn't make sense. I really feel like her comments about the bills were looking for me to say something to ease her guilt. It was all about her wording... it felt weird.
Then this morning I got locked out of the d@mn house! and my only option was to go next door and try to call W while she was on her way to work to let me in! Luckily she did answer and was on her way here. But then the neighbor came out and got me in with a credit card since it was just the door knob....So then I called her back and told her I got in and didn't need her to come.
I'm glad I got in without her...I don't want to rely on her for anything because she's so unreliable right now. Learned my lesson though giving my friend a key later, since I don't feel comfortable trying to hide a key somewhere...
W:32 M:26 T:5 yrs M: 3 yr BD: JUN 2016 W Moved out: early JUL 2016 W Filed for D: mid JUL 2016 EA: 06/16? PA: 07/16 Moved in w/ ow: 07/16 D final: 10/16