I didn't press submit!!

Anyway if officialised, it would be like that anyway. Just how much earlier are you talking about?

If W says that it is not a good idea, say it is not only her opinion that counts.do a bat call for Wonka who is great at how to phrase stuff.

Best wishes


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together