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Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er DonH #2695518 08/08/16 09:55 PM
Joined: Oct 2014 Posts: 8,855 UK V Vanilla Member
Vanilla Member V Joined: Oct 2014 Posts: 8,855 UK	This isn't about lowering standards, it's about finding a great woman in your life. The trouble is that your idea of a great woman is something you see as 'fixed' and anyone else other than the idea is 'lowering standards'. The best person for you may be different from your ideal. Reframe so that your choices are more flexible and that's not lowering your standards, that's looking for love in more places. As yet I am not ready to date and thus I don't go out to the places I will meet someone appropriate, don't go online and thus as a result I am not going to meet someone new. My heart isn't open to even light casual dating. I am bruised battered and needing healing. My ex looks happy with his RIT, he moved on easily whilst I haven't. Maybe I never will be ready and I prepared to accept this as a consequence of a very damaging R. We will see, perhaps I can be in an R again. All I see is happy couples too, and I know things aren't as they seem in life. V Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW

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Subject	Posted By	Posted
10 Years Later - From a DB'er	DonH	07/31/16 04:04 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	SunnyB	08/01/16 10:50 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	BeginningAgain	08/01/16 11:06 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Vanilla	08/01/16 01:06 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Sotto	08/01/16 01:21 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	DonH	08/01/16 03:20 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Rick1963	08/01/16 05:03 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	DonH	08/01/16 07:04 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Rick1963	08/02/16 04:36 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Ginger1	08/02/16 06:09 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	DonH	08/02/16 05:43 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	kml	08/02/16 08:01 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	kml	08/02/16 08:02 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	DonH	08/02/16 08:41 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Zues126	08/02/16 08:54 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	kml	08/02/16 08:59 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	DonH	08/02/16 09:41 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	DonH	08/04/16 09:39 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Vanilla	08/04/16 02:16 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	kml	08/05/16 11:28 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	DonH	08/05/16 02:30 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Maybell	08/06/16 08:10 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	DonH	08/06/16 02:42 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Vanilla	08/06/16 06:35 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	DonH	08/08/16 08:52 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Vanilla	08/08/16 09:55 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Maybell	08/08/16 11:43 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Surfer	08/09/16 01:17 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	DonH	08/09/16 07:40 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Maybell	08/09/16 08:11 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Surfer	08/10/16 12:39 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Ginger1	08/10/16 05:04 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Surfer	08/10/16 12:14 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	kml	08/10/16 09:23 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	DonH	08/11/16 03:16 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	DonH	08/11/16 04:07 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Maybell	08/12/16 03:44 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Ginger1	08/12/16 04:05 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	DonH	08/13/16 03:32 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Sotto	08/13/16 11:48 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Maybell	08/14/16 10:47 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Zues126	08/14/16 11:38 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	kml	08/14/16 05:05 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Painter	08/15/16 06:03 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Ginger1	08/15/16 06:20 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Georgiabelle	08/15/16 07:44 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	SunnyB	08/15/16 08:28 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Surfer	08/15/16 03:41 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	DonH	08/16/16 02:15 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Underdog	08/16/16 02:53 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Ginger1	08/17/16 06:25 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	DonH	08/19/16 09:29 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Georgiabelle	08/19/16 11:41 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Georgiabelle	08/19/16 11:43 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	DonH	08/19/16 08:09 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Maybell	08/20/16 05:28 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Georgiabelle	08/20/16 03:02 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Georgiabelle	08/20/16 03:28 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	DonH	08/20/16 04:29 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Georgiabelle	08/20/16 04:59 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Underdog	08/20/16 06:29 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Surfer	08/27/16 02:08 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Cadet	09/07/16 06:23 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	DonH	10/03/16 06:27 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Maybell	10/03/16 07:05 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	DonH	10/03/16 07:36 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Ginger1	10/04/16 05:17 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Rick1963	10/04/16 06:39 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Ginger1	10/04/16 06:46 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Rick1963	10/04/16 07:22 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	DonH	10/04/16 09:05 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	trumpet	10/04/16 10:03 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	DonH	10/04/16 05:08 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	doodler	10/05/16 05:49 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	DonH	10/05/16 08:00 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	doodler	10/05/16 05:26 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Vanilla	10/12/16 04:16 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	DonH	10/12/16 05:32 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Ginger1	10/12/16 05:36 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	doodler	10/12/16 05:40 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	DonH	10/12/16 06:14 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	doodler	10/12/16 06:33 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Vanilla	10/12/16 11:58 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	DonH	10/12/16 02:34 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Vanilla	10/13/16 04:29 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Ginger1	10/13/16 05:19 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	doodler	10/13/16 07:08 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	DonH	10/13/16 05:38 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Ginger1	10/14/16 06:03 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Ginger1	10/14/16 06:05 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	doodler	10/14/16 06:34 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Vanilla	10/14/16 11:42 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Vanilla	10/14/16 12:25 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	doodler	10/14/16 01:32 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Vanilla	10/14/16 04:53 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	doodler	10/14/16 07:01 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Vanilla	10/14/16 07:25 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	doodler	10/15/16 05:31 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Ginger1	10/15/16 08:25 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	job	10/16/16 05:47 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	DonH	10/16/16 11:40 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	doodler	10/14/16 06:23 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	Georgiabelle	08/15/16 08:03 AM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	kml	08/02/16 02:48 PM
Re: 10 Years Later - From a DB'er	DonH	08/02/16 05:26 PM

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