Google healthy detachment in relationships and review the info in the live strong link. This can provide you with a short clear picture of what is needed and why it is healthy to be in a relationship with a healthy detachment to avoid codepency. There is much information to aid you in your understanding of codependent relationships and how they are unhealthy emotionally and mentally.
I believe that the terms detachment and codependent are two misunderstood terms by so many. But there is a lot of info to help clarify them. Healthy detachment aids partners in relationships to avoid codependency. We have all heard that it is better that 2 whole individuals make a better relationship than 2 persons that need someone else to pick up their slack.
I am still researching and studying this to better understand it myself so hopefully this can give you something to start off with if you were looking for more about codependent relationships.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
