SmythyC -- you, Natus and cbtdad all appear to support snooping. But I'd like to ask you, what difference would that make? Consider the possibilities:
a) Your W is having a physical affair. b) Your W is having an emotional affair. c) Your W is fantasizing about a satisfying affair or a dating life.
How is her heart & mind different with regards to you as a husband? What would you do differently?
Not being argumentative. Just trying to think things through myself.
Its not so much i support snooping but i want to know the truth. My W never offered any so i had to find out myself.
Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs 23Mar16-BD 9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss. 27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM. 14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation. 24May17-Divorced.
