Thanks Feyth... you are the best. Those are some deep questions. She would be a great mom but I am not sure she wants kids. She always said she did but was she just saying that because she knew I wanted them?? Every time I tried to actually talk about it she would not want to... I guess that is a clue that she really didn't?? I don't know. I would like to ask her sometime.
The first two questions I have to really think about. The pattern of this behavior is really concerning. hmph.
What are your next steps or are you just continuing with the status quo??