New and going through a Hybrid Seperation

[cbtdad]

Forgump,
I am not a fan of snooping.
It is something that can be addictive and destructive
However, I do believe that early on in a situation is something that needs to be done to find out the truth.
Because if there is one absolute things that WW's have in common is lying
They lie plain and simple. It's not something you can just ask them
They will not just admit an OM

I think once you have enough evidence to rather there is one or not then that's when it needs to stop