NYGal, so sorry to hear that OW won't leave W alone!

You said before that you could out OW's antics at the U but it could have negative consequences for you?

I wonder, have you and W ever talked about the chemical effect it has on the body and brain to have an A? I guess I mean to ask, does W know what she's fighting? Are the two of you seeing an MC? Are you seeing an IC?

I know it's easy to blame OW (I do it myself) but the real issue is one of trust with W...


M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17