Sandi and Christy - Yes we are still planning to go to MC. I understand that I can't fix her, I am just happy to see her making steps to work on her issues. We both know we have a lot to work on ourselves in addition to our R.
Also yes, I realize this could be another big temp check. I am prepared for this and I'm maintaining some healthy space to be able to shift back into detachment easily if I need to.