Thanks again Andrew. I don't know if my WW had an affair or not. Of course I think she did but I don't think about it. Who knows.
wow dark... Are you sure you weren't here before?!? One of my favorite posters spoke just like and said this same thing to me before. Makes me wonder...
Anyway, filing myself is an option though I think it would be to my benefit financially if she did it or if we agreed to it. Agreeing to it might be what she is angling for, no idea.
I love this question of why would divorced be better. It is finality. Once we are D, I'll never speak to her again, I can't. It's not fair to me, to her or anyone we would be with. I also cannot be in a relationship with anyone until we are divorced, my conscious will not allow it. I should be at the beginnings of starting a family at this point not going through this. That's how it would be better. I mean, I am basically divorced now anyway, just not officially.
