Thanks, EDF. Now this. W swears ow is not interested in contacting her at all and that ow has moved on. But I snooped. Why whenever I snoop do I find something that sets me back -- but it's always something i need to know. ow sent W an email YESTERDAY about a retirement home in Paris!!! It was sent to two other people as well, but W was first on the list... and it said, "to the women I want to commune with." EXCUUUUSE ME??????

W has promised, as a way of winning back my trust, that she will tell me if ow contacts her. She did not tell me. I had to snoop and found this. She also had promised me that before -- then they had lunch 10 days ago and she told me afterwards -- in other words, she didn't tell me about that until after the fact, probably knowing that if I found out there would be hell to pay. Well there was still hell to pay.

And why the hell does ow think she can still contact my W and propose a frickin' retirement home with her????????????

I'm so upset. It may be ow just trying to keep her hooks in, but W is weak. She can't resist attention. And my screaming at her, I know, made her question her commitment to me all over again.

Friends, it's never easy.

11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat