a) My boundaries would me much more different. I'm assuming W is WAW w/some MLC based on my actions in the MR. It's important that growth comes from me in this scenario and that trust comes back to the relationship
b) Probably same as A
C) I'm assuming she's doing that now, because in her mind she has ended the MR and imaging the possibilities. However, these are fantasies and not A or B. Improving myself, doing DR/DB, and detaching will maybe put reality back into the picture.
Lastly, I don't at all support snooping. In periods of weakness, I feel all I have left is understanding my place (I know terrible detachment), which makes me weak and I snoop. I really don't want to do it and really hope there's a time where I just don't care to do it.
