What's pointing south is that I have caught my wife not being truthful about her whereabouts. It could easily mean she was just going out with friends and clubbing, and really didn't want to admit to it. The thing that continues to perplex me is why is the first place would she provide any information? I'm not asking. I may of mention in the past my wife seems to be in a MLC and that reliving her lost years is also motivating her actions and determination about how she feels about the MR. Pointing back at my bad choices alleviates some of the guilt/conflict about her decision to want to leave the MR.