Thanks, AndrewP. I have one best (male) friend, my Dad and my sister who are my support group. Both Dad and sis can start in with the fire-setting, though, especially if I'm particularly down in that moment. I tend just to see it as them being concerned with no outlet for the anger they're feeling, and they always get it back under control before too long.
Me: 46 W: 44 Married: 17 Together 21 D13; S10 BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you) Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)