Has anyone ever experienced a situation where you establish a visitation schedule for the children and the WW just ignores it completely? In this case, I am talking about not seeing the kids at all and missing many weeks where she was supposed to be hosting them at her place.
Is this part of the "script"? How did you handle it (or ignore it)?
NVBH - Kind of. When WW was still in my home, before I knew of the A, she blatantly ignored our S4 and left me all alone with him for many days at a time which was part of what clued me into the A (You do not have an A listed in your sig? not happening?). So as for your advice - Andrew P nailed it:
Originally Posted By: AndrewP
Document it - very carefully especially if you can document the agreement. Getting into a p@ssing match with WW just gets everyone wet and stinky.
Also, so I don't re-invent the wheel here. Read my thread "fight for self" There is a ton of general information I have posted there, including things about the WAW ignoring the kids. Also, you never answered if you read all of Cadet's HW assignments - did you? Because if you did, you would have encountered the tome that Sandi has been kind enough to script for everyone here, and that stuff certainly includes answers to your questions as well. Her stuff is from personal experience, my stuff is from research into the subject matter itself. Either way or with both, you will gain some insight - but you gotta read this site dude, you gotta read this site. You have entered into a place that the DB/DR books do not open doors to on their own.
"There is no more important fight than the one for ourselves. Keep on winning." Ginger1, Read her newbies. BD: Feb '16 D: Mar '17 Piecing: Putting the self back together was my piecing. S6
