p.s. With respect to the subject of this thread, "Keep Wearing Wedding Band?" ... Some weeks ago I took off my ring because I had finally given up. And I gave up because I fully accepted that my W had given up. Then after posting here, I realized that I don't care whether my W had given up. For me the M was still there. So I put it back on for myself, for what I wanted. And I'm glad I put it back on and kept it on, because it speaks to me. And I think it speaks to people around me about where I stand. It boils down to the oft-repeated mantra in this forum: it's about what you want and what you can control, not about controlling your WAS/WW/MLC. I kept it on for me.
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final