pinn - my W still hasn't contacted me about anything R related but it's only been a few weeks since she walked out. IF she does reach out I'm expecting a similar monologue as my W pretty much never said "sorry" for anything in all our years married. I'm still not sure how I'll handle it.
One major thing for me to even consider talking to her would be that she would have to end the A and do a solid dumping of OM. There's really no point in my mind of talking to her while that is an option for her. I'm not interested in being part of any sort of comparison shopping she may be doing. I don't recall reading anywhere that your WW has cut off her A or not.
Another way to look at it - you wouldn't want to engage in a R with a woman who was already in one. If OM is still around she is in one with him and that makes you more the OM/OM - a role that I'm sure none of us want.
Is she your "buddy" or are you her cake baker? Sorry - harsh words here I know. I hope you have physical custody of the Sox tickets - I'm sure you can either find someone else to go with or enjoy the freedom of an empty seat beside you to hold your drink and ball glove.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells
