That helped ease the pain, and I started to think about not wanting to be seen as anything less than a H by my W -- don't want to be some castrated best friend -- and I started to feel like what she's doing is really immature and adolescent, which made me feel like I deserve better. Those thoughts gave me just enough courage that when I got home I put up a good front, did not act pitifully hurt.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
