rich: good luck with the transition I will say some prayers for you and that you have peace with it all. i'm not sure if I could go back either even if WAW did want to. I probably would try for the sake of d7 though. I feel bad for d7 and it rips my heart out every time she tells someone (even complete strangers) of the divorce. WAW is pressing to get the MDA completed so I expect that will be done this week. she is worried about finances and says I owe here such and such (the equity from the house). I have since refinanced but will keep the proceeds in savings until the MDA is signed.
SH: thanks for the info on the thought process. Are you saying that we should try and substitute a positive statement for the negative when the negative thoughts occur? Can you provide some specific examples that you think have helped with solving the anxiety issues?
Me: 48 WAW:40 T:14yr M:12 yr d8 BD 2/2016 WAW moves out 6/05
