I understand doodler but let me give you an example.

Me: Can the kids stay over tonight. I will have them at your house at 6 in the morning.

W: I don't think that's a good idea. So no.

What am I to say to that? She gives no reasons other than I don't think that's a good idea.

M:39
W:40
S:10
S:7
D:12
BD:3/5/15
Separate BR:3/5/15
W moved out with kids 1/3/16