What are the things that are pointing it to the way that you don't want it to go? I understand the mobile activity thing.
My W doesn't talk on her cell phone much either, but she texts like crazy. That's why I had to hack her ipad to find out. When I did that I was able to monitor her texts and FB messenger for about a week.
At the end of the day there was nothing I could find any text to her best friends or anything that would indicate something.
But in the end there is no way to know 100 percent.
So I decided based on info I had that just to move forward like there isn't OM
At the end of the day you have zero control over that.
I just think it's important to know if you can find out
To me it's a different situation if AP is involved


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it