Yeah, I'm conflicted about that as well. On the one hand there's things I don't want to hear, but at the same time, taking a long time view, I think if we do ever get to the point of reconcilliation, it will speed up the process as we won't have to go through the step of me asking questions about everythign I feel I need to know about the A.
lfm,
I find you exasperating. (Have I said that before?) You don't need to worry about reconciliation, you need to worry about OM2, OM3 and OM4.