Just let the kids pick something for her. Not too extravagant ... and maybe a neutral birthday card?

Keep holding steady, you're doing better than you think you are .... xoxo

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver