Summary: Wife backed off on her divorce request after her physical affair met its end.
Wife is continuing to have an EA with my brother in law (BIL), my sister doesn't know, and my wife has threatened to divorce me if I tell. She refuses to stop contact with my BIL.
I value my kids happiness and futures more than anything in the world, and my sister finding out will have a big impact on my kids and her kids lives.
Latest saga is that my six figure job will be terminated in about 60 days. If it weren't for my kids, I'd be tempted to pull the plug and take my dream job anywhere in the world and leave this all behind...instead, I'll look for something local and keep trudging through this mess.
Anyone else been in a similar situation? Any advice on detaching and GAL with 3 young kids...and now being dependent on my wife in case I don't line up a job soon?
M 17 years 3 kids EA start 2010 ILYBNILWY 1/2014 PA 1/2016 Bomb drop 2/2016 Renig on Bomb drop 4/2016 Living as roommates, EA continues
