I think doing what you are doing now completely focusing on you is better than worrying about it. I know i spent way to much effort on snooping but im a scorpio and uncovering secrets is my thing.
Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs 23Mar16-BD 9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss. 27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM. 14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation. 24May17-Divorced.