cbtdad - yes, a little bit of snooping, some of it points the way I don't want it to go, but a good portion of it points to no OM. Frankly, there is very minimal mobile activity. I understand that's not a foolproof way to determine this, but I would assume to many people a big indicator to what's going on.

I'm GAL this week and leaving for a trip for all week to visit a friend, maybe a voice recorder may be in my future, but again she never talks on the phone.