Hi AndrewP,

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Weird - mine did that too. At the time I took it as an attempt to be open and honest with me and believed it to be a crumb of hope that she was respecting me again. No clue as to the reality of it.


It's just my W made this detail explanation as to where she was attending and what she was doing, and based on data from other folks, I fairly certain that was not her plan. I didn't ask for a explanation when she left and she didn't have to give it to me (no pursing). But, I just find it odd why she would make this up. The only thing that comes to mind, is that in some subconscious way it minimizes her guilt to whatever she's doing.

Frankly, I rather she never tells me anything as I don't plan too. There's also a part of me that would like to know if things are headed to a WW instead of a WAW (I'm assuming her current status) then in a way I can shift to harder detachment.