Originally Posted By: SmithyC
This coming Monday i will be going to go to my first Meet-up support group for divorce/separation it will in the evening for a couple of hrs. If my W asks where I'm going (which I expect she will), what is the response I should give her in our current state of S but cordialness within the same house?

If she doesn't ask, I don't plan to volunteer any information.

Fr my GAL I plan to go to 2 Meet-up support groups every week. It will good to meet new people and ones that will understand my situation.


Are these your only GAL plans? I encourage you to find some activities that do not revolve around your relationship status.

I'm not saying e meet ups are bad, but they aren't sufficient GAL by themselves.


Me: 44
H: 44
Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10
Together/Married: 22 years
H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16
H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16