If I were you, I'd cut down on H coming over for family time. Maybe if your girl likes it, I'd say once a month? One of the vets could help you there. But, I'd try to cut it out. Why? Because your family is a H, W and child. Right now, that's not a reality. And even though you want it to be, a weekly dinner would just be crumbs.
You don't want a friend. You want a H, and a Daddy that's there for your child 24/7. One thing I've finally understood is tough love. "This will hurt me more than it does you." You're a parent, you know that phrase lol. He might get angry, he might get confused. That, in truth, is good. Do you get angry about something you don't care about? That was something I thought was weird at first, but when it was explained to me I saw how it was a positive....
Me: 35 W: 32 S: 4 T: 6 M: 4 Physical Separation official: 5/21 Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son
Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.
