My wife walked out 4

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I believe you are correct. If I may speculate a little, a few tears may have been shed later on but it would never happen in front of me so I'd never know anyway.

I remember reading a thread from Cadet in which he said that it would take around 9 mos of DBing for a WW to have regrets and reach out.....and for the first time I'm feeling like I could do it. I'm getting to a better place each day, I've just got to keep on this path and see what happens.

No expectations. And mucho patience....