Have you read the threads on the WW? If you did, it didn't stick. You are being used by your WW. You need to set some ground rules as to when she comes to see the girls. Have a co-parenting schedule. She should take the girls to her place and not spend her visiting time at your house.

You need to stop spending time together as a family. This is major cake eating for WW. You need to show her what D looks like. And, D families do not spend time together!

If you stand a chance at her returning to the M, you have to toughen up and stop being this love sick pup. You do not get a WW back by being soft and trying to please them.

When a woman's own sisters tell the H he needs to stand up to his W.........why in the world would you not stop being such a pushover? It ruined her respect and love. So, why continue doing what doesn't work? She is not going to return to a guy that is a doormat.

Btw, what are you doing to GAL?

I hope you will read the WW threads.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!