Update. Had a very long talk, visit with XF yesterday. I am happy as well as a bit guarded to let everybody know that we are going to be giving this a shot. It's gonna be a long road but I feel confident that she is willing to put the work in that it's gonna take. Only time will tell where this leads, but it's a path I feel like I owe myself to take a chance on. Wish me luck!


Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home