A new day is approaching

[Irish M]

Hi Job thank you :-)
Yes my D14 had an amazing day,
I might of either dislocated my big toe yesterday on the trampoline. I tried a few moves that when I lamded my toes would flex back quiet a bit. I can walk but can't put much pressure on it. I have another full day planned today so it should be interesting. I'll go to the hospital after today's outing.

Hi Cld
Not sure what you read but I don't agree on where my XW is. I see it more her having worries about her mothers own depression and putting it all on me. None of this is her doing.

You are a very positive person and I see you have a strong hope for these MLC's to come back. Not only for your own sitch but for many here.

LBS have their own stages. I think you are in denial. Nothing wrong with that but eventually you will one day have to accept that some don't come back. In hoping for it you may just set yourself up for more hurt.

Live your life my friend, don't think about the chance of the MLC waking up and coming back. I don't mind you telling me mine will wake up and want to come back one day. I dropped the rope, no expectations and no hope. Where I will be if she does is my own choice. Just be careful you don't creat false hope on other sitchs. Let the LBS decide and have their own hope if they want it.

And you can't assume where the MLC'r is in their tunnel or path. Nothing is certain.