It's always a bit of a tug of war, isn't it, with Joy, Fear, Anger, Disgust, Sadness, all vying for attention?

I have sat next to all of them during this ordeal, and these days I have had a few visits from White Anger myself. She has been a rare visitor, though I'm not sure why. Most people think I should be angrier than I seem to be.

I"m glad that she is paying you a visit, Miss Painter, and giving Sadness a much-needed respite.

Sara is absolutely right, OW has "won" the Booby Prize. Yeah for her. You, on the other hand, are growing, stretching, and getting better every day, outgrowing and out-classing your WH in every way.

Hang in here, Lady Bird. You've got this.

((((((((Painter))))))))


H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16