A new day is approaching

[Irish M]

Gwen and Bttrfly, love and respect both of you. I am happy to call you my friends.
We all have different sitchs but the bond we get in shearing and supporting each other will last a lifetime.

Well today is my D13 birthday.. yahhh 14 years old.I didnt go all out as i did for the sweet 16 party of D16. D14 will get that at 16.

I did get her some cool gifts.. Miranda Sings pants was the real hit. The nikon camera was a close second. lol

I brought her and her friends to a lazer tag and trampoline center. I got to show off my flips over the edge into a huge pool of foam blocks. After my first flip the girls all looked at me like ... who are you lol they never thought I could do it.It was cute. We'll see if i'm sore tomorrow morning.

XW did poke her head out of her hole. She sent a similar bunch of flowers as she did D16 last week. D14 was thinking of tossing them out but decided to just put them on the counter and she said she'll think about what she wants to do with them tomorrow.

I messaged XW that D14 got the flowers and I will make sure she doesn't drop them off at XW's work as D16 did. I really felt bad the D16 did that.

She then tried to call me. XW hasn't tried to call me since last sept 2015. I didn't answer. I had nothing more to say. So i wrote to her saying such.

She writes this long text saying she doesn't want to argue but then goes on saying how not seeing the girls is going to kill her mother. X-MIL hasn't seen or talked to the girls since last August 2015. Now she is a grown woman and decided to not contact of show any kind of support to them at all. It's not my doing that she is not well. XW did say that MIL was seeing a psychologist and on medication. I replied good that she is getting help. It is long overdue. She went on saying that she has had no contact with her sister of father since the separation. I know that is a lie. Her sister is on her Facebook and likes many of her pictures. Her fathers girlfriends does reach out to her as well. So she is playing victim still and throwing in poor MIl as well.

I will stay clear of those discussions...I did not share this conversation with D's . no need.

all in all a great day with the D's and their friends..

Hugs

Irish