This sounds alot like my W. I thought no way there could be OM as she always home and in bed by 8.30pm. She makes me breakfast for work, she has a strong value system. Boy I was wrong. Dont meant to scare you but just warning that you might be in LBS fog.
Yeah, I can't be 100% sure. However, from doing some snooping (which I don't like doing) very minimal activity in any of her mobile activities text or calling, and no odd behavior when she's at least home. However, she leaves for a few days as our Hybrid-S
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Shes waiting for you to give up. She doesnt want to do any of the work or hard stuff cause that will make her the bad guy.
I'm committed to not give-up, going to GAL and 180. Time is my friend as the old expression, she would be crazy to give up the man I determined to become. I still have home court adv in that she's still home, and everyday (I or she's here) can see consistency in my changes and improvements. I still know I can't control what she wants but gotta use the DR tools.
Tonight, she left for a dinner with "girlfriends" and then will go to her friends house for the night and come back tomorrow evening. I just told her have fun and be safe. My typical reaction would of been who's going to be at dinner and what time will you be here. She initiated a hug and I accepted. In most past interactions, its her that initiates the hug. There's at least some tiny improvements 2 months ago, she wouldn't allow me to have physical contact with her.