Come Anger, come sit right over *here* (pats seat)
This is white anger and can focus you on motivating you to make changes that are healthy. Red anger is more rage and emotionally messy. Use this opportunity to realize your strength and worth. Meanwhile this OW is inheriting this controlling, passive aggressive man-baby. Well...congrats OW, "enjoy" your "prize." (insert evil smile)
M 10yrs T 13yrs BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce April '17-Letting go 2018 D busted DD8, DS6, DS3