So to summarise. After 5 months of trying and believing W went NC and is doing work to save the M turns out i was wrong. Fully separated 14July16.
Separation details: im at the house half the week with son then she is. We have sunday lunch at home together as part of the handover. This the only time we see each other.
So im coming to a month of full separation. It has gotten easier but i still morn the loss of my family. Thurs night i went movies with female colleague (not a date) strictly platonic, she introduced me to wall climbing which i have enjoyed immensely. Anyhow in the movie a father misses his kid and that hit me hard. After the movie i walked back to my car then broke down crying listening to some recording of my son saying goodnight. Thankfully i was alone in the car - female colleague brought her own car, thank goodness, do not want people to see me like that.
Showing the house to a few buyers. Hopefully will get sold soon. I want to start a new chapter in my life with son.
Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs 23Mar16-BD 9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss. 27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM. 14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation. 24May17-Divorced.
