2 Times, I know what you mean when the anger turns to disappointment. It must come from acceptance, knowing this is something in them, not us. I am not sure why your H feels the need to lie. I too value and require honesty, I understand your frustration.
Remember, it's not you, it's him.
How did the shopping therapy go? I hope it helped
Me 48 H 46 S 11 M 2004 BD 8/13 H moved out 2/15 -live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-